My mission field looks no different than my life. In fact, you might say I have no mission field but to let my life shine wherever I am.
Do you see missions as a project? Do ever think "if only that person thought/felt/did the same as me"? Then let me challenge you to step back and re-evaluate yourself. This type of thinking is not other-focused; it's self-focused. Whether you're exalting your own "righteousness" or pointing out the "less righteous" actions of another, this type of conduct has a tendency to tear down relationships, sometimes subtly, which is counteractive to the goal of impacting the other's life.
What does your conduct have to say about you? Ultimately, your conduct should be honoring to a holy God. In the context of a human relationship, it is important to respect the other person's expectations. When trust is built, intimate concerns may be revealed. Ask permission before sharing any personal information even under the pretense of asking for prayer support. Gossip has a way of spreading even with the purest of intentions. Ask yourself - am I acting in the best long term interests of the relationship?
Being intentional means thinking before acting. It's learning to see beyond the surface. It's looking for the deepest longings and needs of each person, both physical and otherwise. Then it's looking for ways to invest ourselves in the person's life in positive, considerate ways.
Let your relationships be driven by a mutual respect, valuing what each side brings to the relationship. When another person sees something good and pure in the way you conduct your life and your relationships, they will naturally be drawn to you, what you stand for and who you associate with. They will want to be more like you, and embrace more of the good and true in your life.
So go on, let your light shine!
"Matthew 5:16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven."
